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Stupid Cops and the Stupid People That Hate Cops

Okay kdeuce, let's look at the scenario you state above. And let's point out all the holes. A deputy walks into the house. Without a warrant. First, I'm ASSuming that all deputies/police have been trained on what they can/can't do, and walking into a house without proper cause, is something they are all well versed on. If a party is going on, they probably have a strategy that skirts around the law. Such as asking a person leaving, if they can go in (I remember in high school, seeing this done in Lethal Weapon...Mel Gibson/Danny Glover ask these women leaving a drug dealers house, if so and so is there. The women say "Yeah, go on in." Glover says "You don't need a warrant when you're invited in.") But I digress. You then state that you "wonder why he's there." Really? If you're throwing a party, do you REALLY think the person throwing the party is wondering if a family member died? If their aunt had a heart attack? Or if the neighbors house is on fire? Or...do you ASSume this probably has something to do with the party -- maybe a noise complaint, problems with parking, etc. Now, let's go to the last scenario you bring up. The woman wants to know WHY such information is needed. I'd say that's a reasonable request. Now...do you really...and think about this hard. Do you really think a deputy is NOT going to tell her why? Is the deputy going to say "That's not your concern right now, just answer my questions." Or will the deputy say "I need to fill out my report, and that's info I need." To which the party goer, who is already angry at what sounds like an idiot neighbor (in my opinion), and instead, this party goer/homeowner jumps into a defensive mode. And instead of answering questions pleasantly, becomes combative. It sure seems like that's probably the way it went down. Common sense will tell you that. Cops don't just show up, barge into your house, and start pepper spraying everyone. They wouldn't last long on the force.
— July 12, 2009 12:25 a.m.

Sexual Harassment

Refried: congrats. Hope you have another 17 and more! I've had friends that worked placed that prohibited dating. I always thought that was silly. If people act mature about things, there isn't anything to worry about. But as we all know, a few idiots out there always spoil things for everyone else. Mann Theatres, the one that used to be in UTC, my friends worked there during high school. They all told me employees weren't allowed to date. Yet many of them did. One of the managers told me the reason wasn't so much sexual harassment or bad break-ups, but that if a couple is dating, they were more likely to steal and set up various things that way. Weird. I also forgot, one of the reasons I wanted to do this blog was because of a woman I met at a party last night. We started talking about our past jobs, and when I mentioned the radio station I worked for, she asked if I knew a guy in the sales department. I did, and said how he was kind of a weasel when it came to women, and we had a few sexual harassment meetings because of him. One studio had to have all the bikini posters taken down (he was the only one that complained about this). The women that had to record in those studios didn't mind, but I can see our bosses point. Better to be safe than sorry. He also looked women up and down, and would compliment ANYTHING they were wearing, in an awkward way that never made the women feel comfortable. I once told him that instead of complaining about us taking the posters down in a studio, he should try to act normal with the women in the work place. But he wouldn't listen. This woman last night was saying that he worked in radio at a time when that stuff went on, and it was "old school" and things along that line. But my logic is...if things were done a certain way in the "old days," you should get your act together when they're no longer like that. Or at least have the common sense to realize why some of the things people did way back when, weren't so cool.
— July 11, 2009 6:13 p.m.

BREAKING NEWS BLOG -- Michael Jackson and Farrah Die

Well rickey....MsGrant might have a point. If I'm not muzzled, my dangerous viewpoints on great entertainment like The Cosby Show, might get out there. That's likely to hurt future generations, that feel Seinfeld is a much better show. I think Spliff had a few good points in his last rant. I would never DARE to think that I understood racism. Even my times dating a black woman, and hearing the stories she had to go through (or witnessing a handful of things), hardly makes me feel like I know what it's like for an African-American on a daily basis. Since rickeysays quoted Chris Rock, I'll quote him. I once saw him say something along the lines of "Not one of you white people in the audience would change places with me. And I'm rich." I'm curious, though, Spliff. Since you hate Obama and claim he's just a "puppet"...and you are against gays marrying...did you vote in the last election? And, who did you vote for and why would you vote against gay marriage, if as you state, you have "nothing but love" in your heart? Shouldn't the homosexual community get some of that love? After all...you may be correct, that they can hide their sexual orientation, whereas with skin color, you can't. But surely you understand how hard it is for a gay man in society as well, and should at least be able to appreciate the hurdles they have (starting with the fact that they have to deal with family members that might not like their lifestyle...I'm guessing African-Americans don't have parents that want to disown them for being black)
— July 11, 2009 6:22 a.m.

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