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Fred Williams

Equal Rights For Women? Thumbs Down!

Josh, I think you're missing a salient point. Women get lots of stuff free. From ladies nights to boyfriend's gifts, we guys gotta make a bit more just to stay even. Think of it...if a guy buys a woman a car, nobody raises an eyebrow. In fact, both are praised. The man for being generous, and the woman for getting a "good catch". What happens when it's reversed? The woman is a fool for supporting a deadbeat, and the man's a bum. I've done so much unpaid labor for various girlfriends, fixing their cars and apartments, paying vet bills, bailing them out of their credit card debt...you guys all know the story. If I were to marry my sweetheart, and if she never worked another day, she'd still be claiming half my assets in a typical California divorce. The law is so twisted, she's more rewarded the less she contributes. All this is quite unfair, yet you'll never hear the women who long ago got wage parity mention any of this. Instead they'll trot out household chores as unpaid additional labor, calculate an inflated wage for this work, and claim it's discrimination. Well, how about all us guys fixing your cars? Do you know what professional mechanics earn ladies? None of us are paid enough, true. But women have far better access to both government subsidies and outright gifts than most men. Personally, I'm perfectly fine with that. "Women and children first" had better be our society's motto, or our socity will not last long. Women have tremendous advantages, and mostly deserve them. Yet I predict shrill cries of unfairness (to women) will continue throughout our lifetimes. Best, Fred
— August 1, 2008 10:32 a.m.

The Cross Controversy

Josh, please read this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mount_Soledad_cross_… It's been an "Easter Cross" since 1913. The "Memorial" ruse surfaced as a response to later objections. Most legal scholars agree it violates both the California and U.S. Constitutions. The City of San Diego has twisted and turned ever since, because in spite of clearly violating the law, they know they'll be crucified by the talk show loud mouths if they ever did the right thing. Religious symbols offend me no more than Golden Arches or the Starbucks mermaid. But intrusions into the separation of church and state do offend me. The founding fathers were very clear on this. A latin cross paid for and maintained by the city in a place of prominence declares that this is somehow a "Christian City", and does send a signal to those of other faiths, and especially to those of us who recognize that all religion is delusion. The cross has been a pointless distraction for almost two decades now, wasting money in futile law suits because the City was determined to ignore the law and keep the cross. Even "Duke" Cunningham and dear leader George W. Bush got into the act, trying to circumvent the law by transfering ownership to the Federal government by eminent domain. So again...I'm not offended by the cross. If Christians want to venerate a murder weapon by wearing it around their necks, okay. If Moslems want to wear a burka, or Jews a yamika...okay. But don't ask me to pay for it for your jewelry, clothing, or concrete cross on a hill...okay? Consider if you'd support a giant concrete marijuana leaf that symbolizes rastafarianism on top of the most picturesque and valuable hill of our city. Will you just say, "Well I won't look at it and it doesn't bother me that my taxes pay for it." The cross, ugly symbol of death and oppression that it is, presents absolutely no problem Constitutionally as long as it's on private property. Whether you call yourself Christian, Muslim, Jew, Buddhist, or Satan Worshiper, you gotta keep your propoganda off public property. Best, Fred
— August 1, 2008 9:02 a.m.

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