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Dis-Ativan-tage

That's an interesting suggestion, Mr. or Ms. Obvious. But I can't help but think if I were to do something as extravagant as that, I'd want to remember it. What I'm thinking, is hold on to the other one of those pills I have and wait until my next root canal. You know, the stuff you actually want to forget. ;)
— February 2, 2008 9:40 a.m.

Dis-Ativan-tage

Thank you, Jim! That's why video is so great -- it helps us recapture those details lost. ;)
— January 31, 2008 2:52 p.m.

Hotel Fetish

Oh, and I forgot to answer the question, yes, that cyclone fireplace does emit heat. But we preferred to stay warm in the tub. Heh, heh. ;)
— January 25, 2008 8:43 a.m.

Hotel Fetish

Pete, my skin is crawling. Jim, I'll work on that evil smirk thing with David. Rare is the wonderful place that has fluffy, non-bleach-smelling towels, but they do exist. I agree that price doesn't equal greatness -- for us, it's about overall value. We're not looking to waste money, but we do expect to get what we pay for, and when we do (like in Japan, or at that place Shade in Manhattan Beach), everyone is happy. Oh, and that TUB!!! Gotta love it.
— January 24, 2008 10:27 a.m.

Party Tricks

Oh no, Pete, why not?
— January 23, 2008 10:33 a.m.

Letters

Open note to E.J.: In regard to your post script, “A little happiness is hard to come by in this life. Seems to me you squandered a bunch of it this Christmas.” First off, happiness is not hard to come by at all. It’s a mindset, and I come by it very, very easily. As do the friends and family with whom I choose to surround myself. And secondly, I can’t see how choosing to do what makes me happy, with people who make me happy, during a holiday that, if I were to celebrate it, would have made me unhappy, is “squandering” happiness. As for the “maybe you can do better next,” let’s just say, “I plan to.” Thanks for writing in!
— January 22, 2008 12:59 p.m.

The Prado Restaurant

A gem in the middle of Balboa Park, I love walking around the koi pond and ending up in the Prado for some tasty soup and salad.
— January 13, 2008 1:06 p.m.

Merry Tuesday

Haha!! Vanja, that's hilarious. And it sounds like a lot of fun to figure out funky random "anti" presents to give. OneLeggedStepChild, that's a great idea. Everyday deserves to be celebrated, and I am downright religious about enjoying my life. :)
— January 13, 2008 1:01 p.m.

Hungarian Plumbing

One night, perhaps next week, I would like to get hopped up on candy, bathe in glitter and champagne, and then party in your head til the break of dawn, Ollie.
— January 13, 2008 12:41 p.m.

Manav Desh in Imphal, India

It's unfortunate that so many people have to hide who they are for fear of condemnation. I look forward to the day that sexual orientation is not a factor in deciding what makes a person good. We also need to learn to be "truly" colorblind and realize that women, men, transgender, what have you, that we're all the same: human.
— January 13, 2008 12:34 p.m.

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