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so very tired...

tweeps, anyone out there have someone in their life who - by virtue of age - is supposed to be a fully grown, functional member of society - and yet can't manage a simple function such as making a hotel reservation? really? the website said there were no rooms available, got it - but did anyone bother to pick up a phone and contact the hotel? of course not, that takes initiative and that cooky, crazy 'out of the box' thinking that apparently is a dying art these days. and if someone HAD bothered to do that, then guess what? they'd have found out that rooms really WERE available, and could have made the reservation. "woe is me..." please - don't be lazy, don't sit around and pout because the world isn't handing life to you.

i get so very tired of this, and it's almost a daily occurence in my life - just one of the many problems that my wife, for how much longer i can not confirm, has. i don't know how much longer i can carry the weight of her life AND mine. and i'm not sure it's really even something i want to do anymore. i'm almost ready to start a new job, time to leave the dramatics of the past behind me and move on, and in a perfect world, she'd be part of the skin that i shed. love her, sure, always will. put up with her anymore? not feeling it. when the highlight of your day is a trip to the grocery store, you need a life.

if i had a dollar for every threat to leave, for everytime she promised to pack her bags and not come back, then i could open a savings account at BofA. get a free calendar or notebook to go along with that 2% interest on my investment!

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tweeps, anyone out there have someone in their life who - by virtue of age - is supposed to be a fully grown, functional member of society - and yet can't manage a simple function such as making a hotel reservation? really? the website said there were no rooms available, got it - but did anyone bother to pick up a phone and contact the hotel? of course not, that takes initiative and that cooky, crazy 'out of the box' thinking that apparently is a dying art these days. and if someone HAD bothered to do that, then guess what? they'd have found out that rooms really WERE available, and could have made the reservation. "woe is me..." please - don't be lazy, don't sit around and pout because the world isn't handing life to you.

i get so very tired of this, and it's almost a daily occurence in my life - just one of the many problems that my wife, for how much longer i can not confirm, has. i don't know how much longer i can carry the weight of her life AND mine. and i'm not sure it's really even something i want to do anymore. i'm almost ready to start a new job, time to leave the dramatics of the past behind me and move on, and in a perfect world, she'd be part of the skin that i shed. love her, sure, always will. put up with her anymore? not feeling it. when the highlight of your day is a trip to the grocery store, you need a life.

if i had a dollar for every threat to leave, for everytime she promised to pack her bags and not come back, then i could open a savings account at BofA. get a free calendar or notebook to go along with that 2% interest on my investment!

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just makes u want to pull ur hair out huh...:(

a separation may not be a bad idea guy...she seems to effortlessly get on ur last nerve /:-(

July 25, 2011

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