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SD's two cents: I do think you two have something to teach one another, but one cannot hear the other through the heat of rhetoric--and it isn't always clear when this is serious. Spliff, why not calm down on the punctuation, and explain to Josh some particulars about inherited racism, using reasonable language, and maybe he can hear you? Josh, why not open your mind to the possibility that we are influenced by subtle, inherited attitudes and assumptions? We don't examine our beliefs enough, and operate on a kind of autopilot, on what "feels" right. No one has complete control over his or her own consciousness and opinion. Examining ourselves 'unawares' can reveal these attitudes and assumptions. A simple, neutral example is when you used "Kobe" and "beef" in the same sentence, then did a double take. So-called Freudian slips and such inadvertent compulsions toward automatic association can and do reveal unquestioned, comfortable traditions of belief about people and what we expect of them based on race, ethnicity, gender, sex identifications. It is naive to think that these traditions do not inform even the briefest of exchanges with others; we have many complex apparatuses of social identification at work, that we examine no further than we do the automatic bodily processes, like breathing. Allow yourself and your mind some more complexity than you are used to doing, and marvel. Then, both of you, ask yourself what 100 years or so of shifting attitudes about race, or anything, for that matter, might have influenced how your family, your neighbors, how you tend to think? Society is tough on people who challenge the norm, what is normal. We are not "born" from, and they are not "born" from us; we share common ancestors and DNA with our simian friends. The dynamics of sex and gender differences may be tough to google, Spliff, so ask away, and I'll try to answer--from a cultural perspective. Remember, Spliff, if you really want to better racial and ethnic relations, it might be best to start with your own--do you really want to "other" those you identify as sexed or gendered differently than yourself--as the powerful norm? Spreading more hate and distrust of what is not yourself is not the answer. Embracing differences of sex and gender identity--whether you believe they are genetic or cultural in origin-- would seem to be a logical step on the path to that even playing field you seek for all, don't you think? As for any aspect of evolution, that is easy enough to research--if you really wanted to know, you would do so.
— June 5, 2009 5:42 p.m.

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