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Dirty Laundry: Sexual Assault Exposed

I do too Nan, I do too. And, a whistle wouldn't stop many...but that's what the man told us. I recall laughing at it then though to this day I still carry a whistle on my key chain:)
— August 24, 2011 4:58 p.m.

Dirty Laundry: Sexual Assault Exposed

The life you've lived! And see what I mean...the stories...they are everywhere...:) The Tall Blonde Man I referred to told us to get a whistle and to carry it on our key chain or wrist and blow the B'jesus out of it. He warned us against weapons and told us not to resist at all if confronted with a weapon. I believe he was an ex cop. I participated in several defense trainings since his little inspirational talk, one by a woman who had grown up on the streets of NYC by the name of Ruth. She was the youngest of nine, the only girl among eight brothers. I've got to tell you, of all the classes I've taken, her's--her tips--are the ones that stuck with me.
— August 24, 2011 2:31 p.m.

Tribute Band Groupies

I dunno about that...been through Arkansas recently????
— August 24, 2011 12:46 p.m.

No Going Back

Ah, the NEW 'New Deal'--good piece. And yes there IS something that comes from living lighter, as you stated. I, myself, have trimmed my life down to a single key woman (for different reasons but none-the-less). It's like that saying, when the door closes, we look for the open window.
— August 24, 2011 10:51 a.m.

I removed this blog

I like both versions, and can most certainly identify.
— August 24, 2011 10:45 a.m.

Dirty Laundry: Sexual Assault Exposed

As I see it, women ARE and HAVE been since the time of the Sabine, empowered. That's what the root of all this is about I think...but I digress:) Least we further victimize women though, let me emphasize that most of those being assaulted/abused are under the age of 25! This isn't about our youth taking back something they haven't yet even grown into. It's not about women allowing it or inviting it--they are not the ones at fault or whose behavior is in question here. It--for me-- is about men assuming an advantage over the innocent and its about US allowing it. It's not about women and children having to learn to beat men off them, it's about all the rest of us learning to create an inhospitable environment for violence to occur, for us to not allow it, for us to assume some responsibility in protecting the innocent. It's about us--not just as mothers or fathers but as a society as a whole-- raising our boys to be men who damn well KNOW BETTER--who would take their own lives before abusing women or children. But, these are just my thoughts and granted I am a radical when it comes to these issues:) Sick that to lose our innocence(the lack of knowledge pertaining to evil) means having gained an awareness of evil and experience in dealing with it.
— August 24, 2011 8:57 a.m.

Dirty Laundry: Sexual Assault Exposed

I'm all in favor of defending one's self and being aware of one's surroundings regardless of sex, sexual orientation or age even because as you illustrate, Twister, a little resistance goes a long way in deterring the would be assaulter. (Different set of issues though when its someone you love and trust or is an elder depending on how you were raised...)But, it seems to me that the problem still remains not one's ability to protect oneself but that others (men predominantly according to the studies) feel it is acceptable to attack and abuse others (both males and females)for whatever reason. I've been told by more than one men that men will do what they feel they can get away with, that they look for the advantage always. It was in regards to something else but I think his statement certainly applies here as well. So, I'm back to my premise that it if society, via the laws we as voters enact and by our collective reactions/responses, enables and condones sexual abuse and violence to women and children then women and children will continue to be abused and violated. Someone very precious to me once explained to me that in India if a man is inappropriate with a woman or touches her indecently, it is permissible and even expected that every other man in the vicinity will beat him silly. I think we should try that for a day. A single day where men take men into their own hands. Just a thought.
— August 24, 2011 8:22 a.m.

Dirty Laundry: Sexual Assault Exposed

Thank you Isadora! I appreciate your reading and commenting.
— August 23, 2011 5:02 p.m.

Tribute Band Groupies

Sure thing, Frankenstein and thanks also for reading and commenting.
— August 23, 2011 8:27 a.m.

Dirty Laundry: Sexual Assault Exposed

Thanks for reading and commenting, Nan.
— August 23, 2011 1:05 a.m.

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