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El Cajon no-smoking law flouted

The bee analogy is a perfect one. What if the person does their best to stay away from bees, and a neighbor buys a bunch of flowers and hedges that have flowers in them, and now bees are all over the place. The person might get mad, but what can ya do? You don't start passing a bunch of laws. I also like the attitude of the other non-smoker, realizing how insane it is for smokers to not have ANYWHERE to go. I have this theory. People are such jerks and selfish, that it amazes me. They think THEIR things are important, but not other peoples. Or that THEY are right, but if the roles were reversed, they wouldn't. I go to a park where me and other dog owners let our dogs off the leash. But legally, we aren't supposed to. So, when kids ride by on skateboards and my dog runs after them (even though he's tiny), he goes back on his leash and I hold him. Other dog owners don't do this, and they start complaing about the kids. Yes, they actually have the nerve to do that, saying 'Where are their parents?" I always say "Uh...you know that we are wrong, by having our dogs off the leash, not the kids for playing and skating around in a park." These same people would complain if the kids were skating around their house and NOT at the park. My friend just sat next to someone on an airplane that was so fat, he took up two seats. He had to be uncomfortable sitting next to this guy....yet, this guy probably complains about smokers "bother him." It's amazing that people can't see this.
— August 27, 2009 3:52 p.m.

Letters

Now, back to the retarded debate (that could have two meanings right about now). A woman that worked for some mentally handicapped oganization in L.A., sent a letter to the LA Times, when the movie TROPIC THUNDER came out. Her beef was with the scene that had Robert Downey Jr. and Ben Stiller talking about why he wasn't nominated for an Oscar playing a retarded person. Downey tells him "The problem is, you went full retard. You never go full retard. Look at Sean Penn. He was slow, but not full retard. Rainman...he could play Blackjack and had a great memory." (he listed a few more from previous movies, before finishing with)..."You never go full retard!!!" I told the woman that I agree with her about the word in casual conversation. But in a movie, the whole point of that scene (which was very funny in the film) was that these were idiotic actors that didn't have a clue about anything. And they were only concerned with who liked their films and how they could win awards. Her and I had an email volley back-and-forth for two weeks, with her stating her case. And she made good points, about people that did understand they were being made fun of, etc etc. I said that a movie can't be PC to protect those handful of people. Otherwise, no comedy/satire would be able to poke fun at midgets, jews, blacks, latinos, or anyone else. And yes, there are people that would prefer that movies/comedy didn't ever do this. But that's highly unrealistic. I was once shopping in a store, and told someone on the cell phone that my friend was being a "complete retard." The man in front of me turned around, and wanted to kill me. A few minutes later, his wife came in with two teenage boys. Both of them were mentally handicapped. And I haven't said the word since (well...that and my girlfriend was getting mad at the few times I had said it as well). It's not hard to learn that things can be offensive, and to be respectful of other peoples feelings.
— August 27, 2009 3:45 p.m.

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