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The Idiotic ACLU
Thanks for posting those things. I only agree with the ACLU on the gun one. But yeah, I like the fact that the ACLU will support someone or something they don't care for, if it means their rights are being violated. But, the Limbaugh link you have, is a perfect example of WHY they bother me so much. Because, I think the probe was correct in looking into Rush and his drug habits. He was accused (and found guilty) of various things (like having a maid pick up drugs illegally for him). So to me, the authorities should be able to search ANYTHING related to that. Sure, I like the fact that someone like Rush could make fun of the ACLU ever day for two years straight, and they'll come to his aid if need be. But again, this was the wrong time. And the ACLU has a habit of doing that.— May 29, 2009 12:23 a.m.
Parents Taking Care of Children
refried: the first thing rickeysays says is "depending" on what age. So, that doesn't apply to you if you spoke to your kids about sex at the "appropriate" age. Obviously, that can differ from parent to parent, and what age that is. But, I'm guessing he means really, really young -- like 7 or 8. Each parent is allowed to do what they want with their kids, which is unfortunate. At a nudist colony I visited (for a story, I'll have you know)...I gave them crap for letting kids be exposed to this. They argued and argued. All the usual cliches ("you're born naked" and "it's natural," "nothing to be ashamed of"). But any psychiatrist will tell you kids aren't comfortable seeing their parents naked. And, I believe there are lots of other things wrong with this. So, rickeysays was just wondering WHAT you said, and at WHAT age. rickey sometimes fans the flames, but I love it. He once called me a commie or something, because I said in this country you should be "guilty until you can prove your innocence." Although he and I seem to agree in most blogs, when we don't, he sure gives it to me. Which I think I deserve, as I can be a jerk and throw around the word "idiot" for anyone that doesn't agree with me. And his points here, are very good ones. I had a professor I always argued with at SDSU, because he said kids should never be afraid of their parents. The parents should be friends with their kids. Well, that's just a crock of s***. Now, kids shouldn't fear their dad coming home from work. But, there should be a fear that if they do something wrong (steal, try drugs, ditch school)...that their parents won't just be buddy-buddy with them about it (like Amy Poehler as the mom in Mean Girls, offering to gossip and give the girls alcohol to drink). Now, I'm not sure why rickeysays just assumed you were one of those types of parents, but for whatever reason, he seasoned that, and merely said "if you are" or "depending" or something like that.— May 29, 2009 12:16 a.m.
A Picture's Worth 1,000 Words
It's an interesting question, refried. I used to always say, when I was in high school...well, this stems from a guy named Mike that I knew. In 8th grade he hung himself. At the time, I didn't realize how young that actually was. He was really pale, and overweight. I knew him in elementary school, and he was shy and quiet. He looked like a fat, tall Phil Donohue. I'm assuming he was made fun of. I know I called him "four eyes" in 2nd or 3rd grade, because I heard other kids call him this. I had no clue what it meant, and just thought it was his name. The teacher grabbed me and pinned me against the wall, hurting my back. She screamed in my face that I had to go apologize. So, I did. But I had no clue as to what I was apologizing for. I thought a lot about him in high school. And, my friend across the street, his female soccer coach went on a date with a guy she met. He chopped her into three pieces. And, his older brother...good looking blonde, played soccer, all the girls liked him. He got a Dear John letter while in the Air Force, in Italy. He killed himself. And, I said to people...if you're going to kill yourself, why not sell everything you own. Go on some insane vacation, all around the world. Australia, China, everywhere. Don't worry about running up debt and having a good time. And..by the time you're done with that, you won't be depressed. But then I'd read about depression and what it's like for people that have it. And I realize that they aren't thinking rationally. And the depth of their depression, I can't even begin to comprehend. It's not like if I'm bummed because an editor didn't use my story, or some girl broke up with me. Again, I used to say if you're going to jump off a bridge, might as well have fun with someone nearby. Say to them, "I wonder if I hit the ground running, if that would work." Or "If I flap my arms fast enough, I'm guessing I can fly." Just to give that one person some bizarre thrill. Or, as we've mentioned before on here...become a stuntman in Hollywood, and don't be afraid to do any stunt they throw on the table. Because, what's the worst that happens? You die, which was your goal anyway. So, to answer your initial question, if somebody is that depressed, they aren't really giving it that much thought. They just do it.— May 29, 2009 12:03 a.m.
Parents Taking Care of Children
Well, refried...aren't you doing the same thing with rickey, that your sister-in-law did with you? Your snapping, instead of listening, and thinking about what is being said. To me, when your sister-in-law said that, you could've calmly grabbed the package, and pointed that out to her. And you could've followed that by saying "I'm interested in the safety of your kid, not about offending you...a person that is to ignorant to read instructions on medication you're giving your kid, or listen to an adult that's concerned for the childs safety." If she kept mouthing off, it would be up to the rest of your family to tear into her, instead of just standing around (like most groups of people do, because everyone in the world is so afraid of confrontation).— May 28, 2009 5:30 p.m.
Parents Taking Care of Children
refried...your last post is one of the biggest misconceptions about parenting. I have seen some hardcore R rated movies, where parents bring their children (one being Zack and Mira Make a Porno, and I had to listen to a kid behind me say "oh gross!" I won't tell you what happened that made the kid say that. Well, ANY BODY IN THAT THEATRE that has never been a parent before, can say those parents made a bad decision bringing their kids there. Does the fact that they DO NOT have kids, make them unjustified in saying that?— May 28, 2009 4:55 p.m.
Parents Taking Care of Children
Rickey, not sure what refried said that you had such a problem with. I didn't take his parenting skills as bad, from what he wrote. Had I, believe me, I would've jumped on it. (on a side note: thanks for listening to KOGO during the Reader segment). I heard the American flag story, and I too, wondered if that was everything. I'm guessing that it's a hardcore Republican, that had other stuff on their cubicle wall, and the boss just said "all of it" had to go, even the flag. But then the guy runs to the media and says "they made me take down my flag...they're so unpatriotic." Regarding the Glenn Beck story, he was on The View. They called him out on it, and he ADMITTED that he lied. Whoopie and Barbara asked him why, and he just had this stupid-ass smile on his face, and said "I'm not a news reporter. I can do what I want. I'm telling a story." They then surprised me, by saying that nobody should ever believe what he says. To which he just continued to smile and act stupid. He basically said that Barbara called him over to talk. They said HE walked over to talk to them. They then said the seats weren't saved, as he claimed. And, there was one other aspect of the story he lied about. And the weirdest thing is...nothing about him lying made one bit of sense. But, the reason I logged back on here, was to say this. In regards to the safety of children, everyone keeps talking about this reality show of Jon & Kate Make 8, or whatever that idiotic thing is called. They talk NOW about how this might be harmful for the kids (ya think?). So...if everyone wants to act all concerned NOW, why not have the government take away the Octomom kids? She's planning a reality show. This would nip that in the bud, and keep her from the further bad parenting she'll probably be involved in.— May 28, 2009 4:54 p.m.
NBA -- Playoffs and Personalities
UPDATE: another nice guy, former NBA player, struck with tragedy. Brian Grant has said he has Parkinson's disease and is starting a Web site devoted to his fight with the neurological disorder.— May 28, 2009 3:53 p.m.
Your Son is Student of the Month? My Son is on American Idol!
I heard Adam on Regis the other day, say he's considering the singing slot for Queen. Yet, I never heard they asked him. I'm guessing that's news to Paul Rodgers (former Bad Company singer that's now fronting the band).— May 28, 2009 3:47 p.m.
Idiotic Football Players
Spliff, your post (#26) rocked. When you said something about my momma...I literally looked at my computer monitor and said "No he di'nt!"— May 28, 2009 3:46 p.m.
NBA -- Playoffs and Personalities
Dude, I didn't claim I was in his league of shooting. He's one of the best shooters in the history of the NBA. I played high school ball. A big difference. What I said, is that people would call me that on the court, when I made a few shots in a row. When, I would've rather been called Magic. But because I was white, and a good shooter, they went with Bird. I even tried to master the no-look pass. The only thing that happened then was I had a lot more turnovers.— May 28, 2009 3:42 p.m.