San Diego Reader

“Music allows me to express myself, while acting allows me to get away from myself,” says Amber Ojeda, who plays a recurring role in the locally-shot TV show Veronica Mars and fronts a band bearing her name. “I originally auditioned for the part of Cathy when the show was in its pilot stage,” she says. “It’s actually not as crazy and thrilling as everyone thinks. Most of the time, you’re in your trailer waiting for your scene.”

A former San Diego Gulls Girl, Ojeda has lived locally since she was three. “I’ve been offered recording deals from multiple labels, ranging from small indie companies to substantially larger labels. However, none gave me the ultimate control of my music, so it makes no sense to me to sign. I would rather be independent than sell myself short and be a marionette.”

Ojeda feels she’s struck a balance between her two careers. “I don’t envision music forcing me out of acting,” she says. “I landed the theme song in a movie called ‘All That I Need.’ When I went to meet with the director to discuss what elements he envisioned for the lyrics, he ended up casting me to be in the movie as well.” She also landed the lead role in “Prayer Before Murder,” for which she has recorded soundtrack music. “Usually, I like to promote either one or the other, so people take me and my craft more seriously,” she says.

She says this wasn't always easy, especially earlier in her career. ”For a young girl trying to get recognition in the music industry, your morals are tested on a daily basis,” says the 23 year old. “My first experience meeting a record producer [three years ago] seemed to go very smoothly. He told me he loved my voice and liked my style. However, as soon as I left to use the bathroom, he told my manager that he couldn’t wait to sleep with me…yes, there was a couch in his studio.”

In 2006, Ojeda was hired as lead singer and songwriter for a female vocal group, but she says the first recording session wasn’t much of a group effort.

“The other girls were pissed that I was in the booth 75 percent of the time and not them, and one of them stole my lyric book. Someone later left a comment on my website message board with the words of a poem I had written in that book, with a note bragging, ‘I have something you don’t have.’ I couldn’t believe it!”

She has since gone solo, but Ojeda says would-be impresarios still assume a single female needs some kind of gimmick to succeed.

“I was recently offered a record deal, but they didn’t even want me to use my name or sing my music. They just wanted my look, and they wanted me to sing hard rock, which is so different from what I actually sing. I felt totally disrespected for my voice and musical style, like a piece of meat.”